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Someday Starts Here.

Self-Leadership Coaching with Rachael Warren-Allen.

You're successful. Capable. Responsible. And somewhere underneath all of that, there's a bigger, fuller life you've been putting off.
You're not wrong for wanting it. But you're stuck, swirling, struggling to move forward, maybe even a little scared.
That's not a sign to stop. That's a sign you're searching.
It's time to choose.

Self-leadership coaching is how you stop overriding yourself and start leading your own life — intentionally, honestly, and in a direction that actually fits you. We dig into what you really want, identify what's been getting in the way, and build the clarity and momentum to move toward it. Not with a rigid plan. Not with pressure. With a compass that's yours, a guide who will challenge and cheer you, and enough support to make your next true step possible.

Sixteen years in corporate, with more than a decade of it leading teams, grew directly into this work. I know what it looks like to be successful on paper while holding a quiet, slightly unsettling question beneath it.

About Me
I'm a wife, mom, and total "country mouse"... enjoying life with my family and the dogs, cats, sheep, and horse who keep us on our toes. My biology background is in endangered ecosystems, which is probably why I can't imagine life without animals underfoot and am constantly sketching them. In alternate universes I'm a vet, an animator, and a field biologist. In this one, I help people figure out what they actually want and start going after it. Living a full, multi-passionate life turns out to be the through line.

I also bake, paint, read obsessively, and love a good puzzle, word game, or story-driven video game.

Ready to talk? Book a clarity conversation. It's not a sales pitch, just an honest look at where you are and where you want to go.

Not sure yet? Come to Someday Starts Now: a free monthly session where we dig into exactly this. No commitment. Just a first honest look.

Ready to begin?
Create Your Own Adventure

This is where it starts:

Create Your Own Adventure is the work. Not a course, not a curriculum — a real, ongoing coaching relationship built around you specifically.

We start by digging into what you actually want and where you are right now. Not just in the area that feels stuck, but across your whole life, because nothing exists in isolation. We find the gaps, name the patterns you can't see from inside them, and figure out what to try next. Not blow things up. Try things. Small, honest moves in the direction that actually fits you. Big leaps when you're ready.

You can read books, take courses, and ask AI over and over, but still stay stuck — because what moves people isn't more information. It's having someone beside you who sees what you can't, calls it out with honesty and care, and stays with you through the recalibrating and the restarting and the recalibrating again.

That's how you build the courage and self-belief to claim the life you actually want. And show up more fully for everyone your life touches.

How it works:

We begin by mapping out what you actually want from your life — your guiding stars, the compass everything else builds from. Alongside that, the full 6-week Positive Intelligence program helps you identify the beliefs and voices that have been getting in the way. Together these two things become the foundation the rest of the work builds on.

The program includes:

Regular 1:1 coaching: This is the heart of the program. You've tried going it alone. Now we go together. We meet regularly, tailored to your pace and where you are. Together we dig into what's actually going on, find the patterns you can't see from inside them, name what's been getting in the way, and plan your next true steps. When life intervenes — and it will — we recalibrate and keep moving. This is where the mirror work happens, where momentum builds, and where you start to trust your own compass.

Group sessions: Spaces held for reflection, planning, momentum, and growth. Mindset Mondays for weekly grounding. Spark Sessions for creative depth and joy. Monthly Planning Sessions for honest, capacity-aware forward movement. Accountability Sessions for closing the gap between knowing and doing. Gear Bag Sessions and Live Q&A woven in as needed.

A year of Positive Intelligence app access: Because the mindset work doesn't stop after six weeks.

Through it all, we work from regulation first. Before problem-solving, before planning, before action — we make sure you're operating from a place of safety and power, not fear and reaction. Breathwork, mindfulness, and weekly mindset work are woven throughout, not bolted on as extras.

We start with a six-month program, with the option for renewal — because change takes time. Especially intentional, chosen change.

Structured enough to move. Flexible enough to be yours. Built for becoming.

You're in the right place if:

You're functioning well on the outside but running a quiet question on the inside..."Is this really it?"

You've tried to figure it out alone. You've read the books, bought the courses, told yourself to just push through. And you're still stuck.

You don't want to blow your life up. You just want to stop putting the best parts off.

You're ready for someone who will actually see your patterns, tell you the truth, and stay with you while you move.

Is this for you?
This probably isn't the right fit if:

You're looking for someone to hand you a plan and tell you exactly what to do.

You want to talk about what's wrong without moving toward what's different.

You're not quite ready to get uncomfortable yet — and that's okay. Come to Someday Starts Now first. The door will still be here.

If this resonates, stay connected. I send occasional emails on self-leadership, joy, and the work of living a life that actually fits you.